First Date: how to start a conversation

Many times in our first dates are nervous and do not know what to say. All we say "be yourself" but that is not so easy. Sometimes we fear that if we are so, that person away. Or do I just think it? And how is that? The dating world is difficult because like every human being thinks, the first impression is what counts. Once you leave an impression, if it is bad, it will be very difficult to change ...

In many dating sites you can search according to compatibility , but sometimes that is not the best, sometimes opposites attract. Therefore, it is best to try and have a good conversation first.

What do I say? How do I start? What topics are best? All that then.

What better place to start is to talk about something that is common to both at the time, as the restaurant where you are or what you ordered one. But try that comments are not malicious, as if you wanted to make a joke, you look like a bad person.

Talk about simple topics like the last movie you saw or topics, but do not talk much about the same time, unless you receive a response equally interested. If you do not receive it is perhaps because the other person is getting bored. And importantly, always ask what the other person thinks, but cocky and look like you just care what you think.

Never talk about religion, politics or race or sexual orientation on your first date topics. Did you hear comments or Emims can come out with a sound intention but with another. These topics are more appropriate for later. It is always good to know what that person thinks about important issues, but not so soon.

And finally, if you spent a good time, and say thanks. Maybe they can exchange contact details to meet again ...