Feelings in a relationship different for different people. However, there are attitudes that women have towards men that have become common and sometimes seem inevitable. Do not miss these classic mistakes women commit with men then!
"I can change"
A classic women mistake is to think that we have the power to change our partner, who only needs someone to understand that his previous girlfriends strove not enough to help, but you will.
Denial prevents us from seeing the reality that we probably can not change it. So before starting a relationship or before taking a big step like marriage, it is essential to know that you do not trust that it will be different: you must want to change it inadvertently.
"I will be the exception"
Many times it happens that women fall in love with a man with the worst romantic history. Smart Women should realize that detects certain pattern. However, all the love we become blind and hope for the best. Believing he did with the previous one but that you will be different is somewhat risky. There is no reason to distrust, but to realize that sometimes it is not enough to love him.
Do not listen
You can learn everything you need to know of a man during the early months of the relationship or even first dates. Most of the time men are direct and say what they really want and tell their stories. The problem is that women tend to hear only what we want and then get angry when something surprising.
If you're on a date and a guy tells you he would like to marry but can not find any woman who is compatible, you should not be alone with that wants to get married, keep in mind that for some reason you have not found someone compatible and can due to a fault or own business and not in women.
Reward for being honest
If a man tells a woman his financial problems, his terrible childhood or drug problem, women tend to think we are being honest, which tends to open with us and that therefore we should help. When the reality is that we must focus on having a number of problems in your life and it is not advisable to get into that territory.
"It's going to leave his wife for me"
A great classic that is still common to think that he is really in love with his wife and that things are not working. First, you have to question yourself if you really want to mess with a married man, but if you leave ensures that your wife, tell her to be together then do it. It may be true and it can happen to divorce, but it also might just tell you to follow him.
"Marriage or children they will change"
While it may happen that a man then switches to start a family, the reality is that this should not be the main reason for wanting to do so. You must not marry or have children just to "hold" because they find it, you end up divorced and your children will have a home constituted. They must decide when the two marry and when to start a family, otherwise it will not work.
It is important to try to see beyond love, really knowing the other and not want to change it or attach it to a situation. Undoubtedly, these errors are classic and many women have committed and suffered for it. Do you feel identified with any?
"I can change"
A classic women mistake is to think that we have the power to change our partner, who only needs someone to understand that his previous girlfriends strove not enough to help, but you will.
Denial prevents us from seeing the reality that we probably can not change it. So before starting a relationship or before taking a big step like marriage, it is essential to know that you do not trust that it will be different: you must want to change it inadvertently.
"I will be the exception"
Many times it happens that women fall in love with a man with the worst romantic history. Smart Women should realize that detects certain pattern. However, all the love we become blind and hope for the best. Believing he did with the previous one but that you will be different is somewhat risky. There is no reason to distrust, but to realize that sometimes it is not enough to love him.
Do not listen
You can learn everything you need to know of a man during the early months of the relationship or even first dates. Most of the time men are direct and say what they really want and tell their stories. The problem is that women tend to hear only what we want and then get angry when something surprising.
If you're on a date and a guy tells you he would like to marry but can not find any woman who is compatible, you should not be alone with that wants to get married, keep in mind that for some reason you have not found someone compatible and can due to a fault or own business and not in women.
Reward for being honest
If a man tells a woman his financial problems, his terrible childhood or drug problem, women tend to think we are being honest, which tends to open with us and that therefore we should help. When the reality is that we must focus on having a number of problems in your life and it is not advisable to get into that territory.
"It's going to leave his wife for me"
A great classic that is still common to think that he is really in love with his wife and that things are not working. First, you have to question yourself if you really want to mess with a married man, but if you leave ensures that your wife, tell her to be together then do it. It may be true and it can happen to divorce, but it also might just tell you to follow him.
"Marriage or children they will change"
While it may happen that a man then switches to start a family, the reality is that this should not be the main reason for wanting to do so. You must not marry or have children just to "hold" because they find it, you end up divorced and your children will have a home constituted. They must decide when the two marry and when to start a family, otherwise it will not work.
It is important to try to see beyond love, really knowing the other and not want to change it or attach it to a situation. Undoubtedly, these errors are classic and many women have committed and suffered for it. Do you feel identified with any?
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