Thursday, April 03, 2014

When I say "I love you" first?

If you're in a new relationship and do not know when to say "I love you" for the first time , this is your chance to get all your doubts and decide once and for all to do.

When I say "I love you" first?


Saying "I love you" for the first time is not easy, and often do not know what the right time. Is it too soon? Will I be wrong? Let's see together how and when.

When I say "I love you"?

Simply some think the best time is when you are coming to mind and I really feel rather be preparing for days. You know the risk of what you plan for long is that it looks forced and overacted. The most natural is better.

But beware, often the relationship is not as mature for an "I love you" and everything can get away evil. If you say it too early, he may believe that you're used to doing with all your appointments. If you feel that you love him but recently they have appointments , book your feelings a while, until you know it is time.

Signs that it's time for "I love you"


  • When there are signs that it is a serious relationship and not just a fling.
  • When you know it's true love and not just a whim.
  • When you can visualize yourself in 5 years with him.
  • When he already told you.


How to say "I love you"?

The best way to say "I love you" is to do it in person, in a romantic moment, whispering it in your ear if you're a little shy or looking into his eyes if you have more confidence.

Try not to do it by text message, by email or on a piece of paper; although it is something romantic there is nothing better for the first time speak in person .

When do NOT say "I love you"?


  • If you said, but you are not safe. Better tell him that you like to spend time with him and that maybe one day you get to feel love, as the expiration dates. There is no need to lie, there are many things you can say without hurting. 
  • If it is only recently that they are together. 
  • If you've never had a real event.

You see that the best time to say "I love you" is when you really feel the love in your heart and the relationship seem to be going from strength to strength. Never rush things, nor tell it when you know if you are important to him.

After all, saying "I love you" is a big step in any relationship, let's say there's like a before and after the first "I love you".

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