How to strengthen the friendships in my son

The friendships are important at any age, but even in childhood is even more important because it helps them to shape their personality and understand the values ​​of interpersonal relationships.

Most children are adept at making friends , and that being sociable and enhance friendships from childhood will help to have an active social life in both their future and improve their self-esteem and security, developing a distinct character.

Teach the value of friendship

The friendship is one of the values ​​fundamental to the life of a child and even in adult life. But in the case of children helps them develop as individuals.

Your child should learn to make friends, and especially care for them, preserve them and respect them. This is important to teach them to value people , to how to treat them and above all to have a good education emotional empathy and help you get friends that will last many years.

Your child will learn what being a good friend , why and how good friends behave. How to be and how to distinguish who is who is not. He must learn that a good friend can last forever, and for that you need to cultivate and nurture friendship every day, watering it like a plant to keep it alive.

How to enhance the friendship?

• Be Sociable you first. Example is the best tool to enhance it. That goals at home every day with your friends need not only have to see a good atmosphere at home, a happy, smiling parents, open to life.

• Invite your friends or your home to have a good time. It is important that you to refer friends as "friends" so your child differentiates what friendship is. For example: "This evening will come to tea Rebecca and Valeria, some friends of Mom."

• When you are your child's friends at home, do not turn on the TV because you're limiting your experiences. Give them options for fun, like crayons, clay, old clothes to dress ... etc..

• Pay attention to your child. Although you will not believe, this will make you be more sociable. It does not mean that you have to pay attention 100% of the day. It means that in addition to spending time with him, if you're busy and wants to talk, calmly tell him that when you finish doing what you're doing you will attend. So he will be important to you, and therefore also for the rest of the world, increasing their self-esteem and self-confidence. 

• Teach your child what friendship is and explains what it means to you and the value you give him at home.

Sure after reading this article it will be easier to enhance your child's friendships . They naturally already know it, but if it costs you your son, do not hesitate to help.